Dear Nanny Betty,

I have read you Adult Baby, Infantilism and Diaper Fetish Explained article and I think that you have hit most of the nails squarely on the head.  As in life in general, no two ABs are identical in their tastes, desires or reasons for being interested in the AB scene.  I can relate to most of you observations and say “Yes, that’s me” or it is near enough “me” to make no difference.

What do I get out of an AB experience and a visit to a Nanny seems to cover a range of subsidiary experiences, including:-

-       not having to take responsibility for anything, including bodily functions, whilst in Nanny’s care.  (this is an antidote to have had to take on family and business responsibilities for most of my adult life with no opt out options.)

-       this goes with handing over control to someone else and letting them make decisions for you.  (often not often an option in adult life)

-       the ability to be “naughty”, e.g. wet a nappy, without there being dire consequences.  (I was a very conformist child, my teenage rebellion lasted about two days, and this is a way of making up for missed opportunities.)

-       the chance to wear baby dresses, sissy clothes, school girl uniforms and grown up items female clothing.  (It seems logical to dress all babies up as girls as it makes nappy changing so much easier and having started down that path it seems equally logical to continue dressing them as girls whatever their age.  I think that there is a TV inside nearly every male AB.)

-       being made to confess to being “naughty”, often to having to admit to wetting the bed or ones knickers, and then having to ask for the appropriate response from Nanny, e.g. having ones bottom smacked or to be put into nappies or both.  (There are elements of both submissiveness and humiliation, don’t really like the word but cannot think of a better one, in this.  Common to most ABs at a guess.)

-       being made to lie down and put into a nappy.  (There is an obvious element of submissiveness in this and also an element of bondage particularly if the nappy is pinned or taped up tight.)

-       being able to use fetish words or phrases, e.g “terry nappy, rubber knickers, plastic panties, baby’s done a wee wee, etc.”)

-       being able to use age appropriate speech and behaviour.  (I am not one of those ABs who wants to conduct the whole experience at a baby level but I do like to include a certain amount of baby talk and to be bottle and spoon fed for example.)

Being put into nappies and other baby clothes and bottle and spoon fed are obviously key basic elements of any AB experience for me.  The opportunity of being breast fed, when available, is an extra treat. An AB session allows me to indulge in a number different experiences such as wetting, cross dressing, submission, bondage, humiliation, using fetish words, etc., to varying extents, all of which bring me different sorts of pleasure.  The whole AB experience for me is obviously a very sexual one.  An AB session would be a failure and a disappointment if it did not end sexually by being masturbated by Nanny which is always a lovely experience.  An even more lovely experience would be if Nanny undid my nappy and then removed her panties and let her little baby make love to her.  I know that is A VERY NAUGHTY THOUGHT and is NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN but, for this little baby it is a thought that I take to bed with me very often even if it means more “Nanny smacks” when I visit next. 

Lots and lots of love from your “once a year baby”

Philippa